Ageless and Sexy: The Magic of Sensuality--A Love Story
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the pleasure of finding love and life again
As a woman of a certain age, I can whole-heartedly relate to what Sheila Pearl has written in this fabulous little book. It captures the pain of losing a spouse to degenerative disease, the pleasure of finding love and life again, the thrill of starting over on a new career path, and the hunt for true love again and again and again via internet online dating. It explores the feelings associated with growing older in this ageist culture we live in. The reader comes away with renewed hope, passion, and a sense of awe at the beauty of life and what it has to offer. No matter our age, we are sensuous, passionate, and alive! The energy flowing from this book is incredible! Bravo for a job well done! I highly recommend this book to readers of all ages.
It's About Finding True Love
I finally finished Ageless & Sexy last night. Men, stick around because this book is for you, too. I wish every woman would read this book in their 20s. Or for the love of Pete, by their 40s. And as a last-minute Intervention, in their 50s, 60s and beyond. Sheila has encapsulated a lifetime of sensual-spiritual wisdom in its most accessible format. Men, you are not left out of this wisdom, younger men would profit from the sure knowledge that they are not alone in insecurity, in wrestling with sex and sensuality, and that there is a woman (or man...) looking for them to step up to the plate and bring themselves fully to the table, in spite of the damage done by society to men's most precious and tender selves. This book isn't about genderfication, it's about transcending our flesh and being fully present to another, being joined at the spiritual hip to our higher selves, and through that connection, inextricably bound to each other. And so, this is a book for everyone, all across the spectrum of gender, of sensuality, of sex, of sexuality, of orientation, and all adult ages. Because it's at its core a book about the human spirit and a poignant illustration of the quest for self-love and self-reliance that is the fundamental prerequisite of finding true and lasting love. Or perhaps, in itself, is the ONLY true and lasting love. ----Original Review---- I am only entering the big 3rd or 4th act of my life, and I can hope that I can approach it with an Ageless & Sexy mindset. Sheila brings us the story of everywoman Stella, struggling with her identity, her sexuality, her sensuality as she watches the calendar pages turn. But she also brings a unique perspective on the male experience of women, as we have a sort of playboy or alter-ego Matt who ignites Stella's fire -- something almost every man wants to do for someone special to them. Is he a part of Stella, the inner ignition that we all have, the fantasy lover we can use to light our inner flame, and sometimes our most critical and self-sabotaging ego that focuses on the passage of time, additional weight, oncoming wrinkles -- or is he a real person? A real page-turner that ignites the imagination, that lights our desires, that makes us look at our partner and ourselves in a whole new light.
Older Woman Dating Younger Men
I love that each chapter begins with a short, yet powerful, dialogue between our protagonist and her inner voice. I love Stella’s determination to embark on a new career at a time in her life when most of us retire by choice. I love her determination to find a romantic partner and explore her sexuality. I especially love the early chapters where we learn of the challenges and struggles that Stella faces in caring for a bedridden husband. It is heartwarming to see how she learns to cope and embrace difficult experiences during the course of her life. I also feel that Stella’s sexual self-expression is reckless. For example, she dates men whom she meets Online and after one or two phone conversations is ready to reserve a hotel room for two. It is important to tread carefully when dating online – and even more so for lonely, trusting, older women. Stella lacks healthy boundaries. Stella is concerned that younger men may not find her older body sexually attractive, yet she finds men her own age physically unappealing. If she wants to be in a meaningful and loving relationship then she will need to focus more on character and less on sexual proclivities.
HEART THROBBING ! PASSIONATELY ! AUTHENTIC! THRILLING! EXCITING! CAPTIVATING ! ALL ENCOMPASSING ! SENSUOUS ! SEXUAL !
EXCITING ! STEAMY ! STIMULATING ! EMOTIONAL ! EMPOWERING ! AND. COURAGEOUS ! These are a few words that describe this books appeal and value to me. I see this as a very powerful , much needed story of authentic relationship experiences written in a unique style and fresh Voice that's leads the reader to quiver with anticipation and desire! it is a source of inspiration ,guiding us to tune into our own sensuality, using the tools of our intuitive wisdom , honoring our heart and soul. It is a must read for : .......Woman of all ages who desire to feel sexy , accept and love their own bodies, and embrace all of their sexual desires as the Goddesses that we Are .......Men who acknowledge the Goddess and Divine Feminine in women and desire the healthiest Sexuality in their own Relationships. Sheila Pearl's book invites us all to fill our senses with passionate desire and to touch the deepest part of our sensuality. As You read , you are invited into a creative imaginative journey ----a true love story as you relate to your own sensuality and sexuality. Throughout, I was having a conversation with myself , inspired to explore my own body and the body of my partner. Sheila invited me to feel my own healthy sexuality expanding , and I was led to revel in desire, pure heart connection, sacred six and spiritual partnership. That is , in brief, the Magic of Sensuality. And ....That is what makes this a Magical Love Story ! Susan Gordon Rockwell....Heart Centered Psychologist, Social Worker And Healer .
joy, passion
Brave! Innovative! Groundbreaking! A book that reaches out to the Ageless Goddess in all of us. With courage and honesty Sheila Pearl invites us into her journey of discovery, joy, passion, and the pleasures that living as a sensual woman bring to life. She freely admits to her fear, and yet fearlessly beats it back, again and again. Bravo! Well done! As I wrote to her, "This book should come with a warning label: WILL KEEP YOU UP AT NIGHT!"
A journey of self discovery!
i laughed, I cried, I agreed, I disagreed.....I saw myself. Sheila Pearl's The Magic of Sensuality, A Love Story is transformative, educational, instructive and even titillating. Married or single women and yes, even men, will find great value in this meditation to love, sensuality, sexuality and self-realization. This journey of self discovery is a journey for every reader as it reflects on the questions and confusions we all share about our own place in the realm of love....of self and of other.....and its impact on all aspects of our lives.
I love the structure of her tale
My first reaction to reading Ageless and Sexy was, “Spectacular!” Author Sheila Pearl combines her own struggles in losing her husband to illness and opening up to her own strength and worth, as she explores a new life as a fully sensuous and powerful woman. In the unfolding of her story, Sheila has poignant inner dialogues and helps clients to embark on their own new adventures. Her boldness in sharing this story is so courageous and uplifting. I love the structure of her tale, the perfect quotes, and her dialogue between “Stella and Me.” The narrative of her encounters with men keeps us turning the pages and often surprises us with unexpected twists. Her deep compassion for men struck me as especially unique. Her relationship with her husband and later her long-time lover exemplifies that so eloquently. Sheila is a shining model of commitment and self-compassion for women of all ages, but especially for those of us in the years that many identify as “mature.” Her courage in staying with her often painful discoveries leads her to a profound understanding of both women and men as we all work to make sense of the challenges we face at each stage of our lives. As Sheila’s journey continues with deeper insights and an infectious sense of adventure, she undoubtedly will embolden her readers to continue on their own journeys. Ageless and Sexy has so many inspiring messages of compassion and hope. There seems to be a “next book” in the future… Rae Ramsey Life and Spiritual Coach
Fantastic!
This book was a fantastic and very important book for me. I am a 28 year old male who for most of his life was very shy around women, and didn't get very much involved with the sexual process. I was fascinated by Stella's adventure into her sexuality as well as into herself. I appreciated the "realness" of her character and the plot itself. In our everyday lives, we are constantly trying to better ourselves. We have our highs and lows, our struggles and our strengths. "Happily ever after" with another imperfect human being is incredibly difficult to find. Sheila Pearl's book is a great example of all of this. Instead of the trite and overused "happy ending," the reader is offered much more: reality, and the "you're not alone" sentiment. I commend her on sharing intimate details and opening up in ways that many people would look down upon.
Sheila Pearl poured her tender heart, loving soul & ...
Sheila Pearl poured her tender heart, loving soul & effervescent passion into writing this book. She has opened locked doors & is paving a path for all women (and men) who dread aging from the slightest to the overwhelming by acknowledging & validating what sensuality REALLY is as we age. She reassures us that it's our birthright to own & experience the magic the lies within being an ageless & sexy woman. As I read Ageless & Sexy I connected with her on so many levels. My emotions ran the gamut from one end of the spectrum to the other. I feel hopeful, have a renewed sense of myself & want all women & men to know that you do NOT have to experience your parent's or society's belief systems with regards to sexuality & aging. She tells us to reclaim your birthright, stop denying your true essence & live YOUR life with all the juicy sensuousness, passion & vitality that has been buried for decades. Once you read Sheila Pearl's book there's no denying your life will be forever changed.
Listen to your sensorum
Sheila Pearl writes,"Our intimate lives reflect our deepest vulnerabilities", in this incredible book.then she continues to demonstrate her courageous journey of finding a sexual existence after sacrificing so much of her life to her husband. It takes a heck of a lot of bravery to get back in there and become a sensual woman at any age. But Sheila gives all of us hope no matter what age we're at and proves to us that our sensuality can be ignited at any time. We just have to have the mindset for it and "listen to your sensorum". You'll find out what that is when you read her book! I love that Sheila gives us so many inspiring quotes at the beginning of each chapter. There is so much to ponder on and take in that I couldn't just read it quickly. I like to read slowly when I love a book so that I keep it close to me for awhile. That is what I did with her book. I carried it around with me for days and relished each page and enjoyed the company of her, her characters and her words. I wondered how she would end the book and I loved the ending which is only the beginning. Sheila wants to write a series of "Ageless & Sexy" books as she should, BUT I also think she should make her book into a movie. Why? To prove to our film industry who constantly portray men as being sexy at any age and who only have young woman as their leading ladies that woman of any age are Ageless and Sexy too!l
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